Are you really Mayra because if you are I wish you would have told me long ago as I would have believed you.
I apologize that you wasted so much time. I didn’t know. Kevin was convincing.
I, too, wasted many months, and stopped seeing several lovely men in the US, Canada, and Europe, as he asked me to be in a committed relationship, and not “mix his energy.”
When you first contacted me I wish you had been straight forward and truthful. At the time we were having lunch near my condo at Barcelona Tapas, we were just friends. It wasn’t until later that I accepted his invitation to be in a committed relationship.
What a fool I was. I believed he was a man of high value.
You indicated you tried to extend an olive branch to me in November of 2018. I did not receive a message from you and I had already broke up with Kevin months before. I am sorry I missed that opportunity to set the record straight.
I ABSOLUTELY believe in the sisterhood rule. However because of the manner in which you initially approached me, and not being straightforwardly you, I was led to believe — by Kevin — it was just baby mama drama, or another ex (Lisa) causing trouble
I now know better.
The entire time you harassed me, I simply wanted to know who you really were. And you were unwilling to give me that.
The reason I ultimately broke if off with him, in part, had to do with the stories I heard from business owners, Chefs, and friends when I arrived in Vallarta September after a vacation. I believed them. Also, I was heading that way over the summer due to the fact he was no longer present as he once was. In all the emotional, spiritual, sexual, physical ways you want your man to be there for you. My life is so big and his is so small (by choice) that he no longer served my needs… In fact, perhaps, he never did, but there was something about his sweet spirit I was drawn to. I believed I had something to learn from him. (Not the lesson I imagined.) I was perfectly happy living my best life and it took him quite the courting and convincing to have me as his own, even after we started seeing each other.
You may never believe me, or never understand why Kevin pursued me and hitched his star to mine for 20+ solid months. In any case, I was in a committed relationship those many months, he obviously wasn’t.
I am quite confident that you are not as evil as you have been portrayed by Kevin, or portrayed yourself to be to me on social media
You are angry. I understand that. Rightfully so.
In desperation, Kevin has called me numerous times in the past few days, as if he has the power to control me. He does not. He demanded that I not come to his shows. Laughable, as I haven’t and if I want to because he is playing with my friends or at clubs or restaurant/bars I frequent with my group of friends, I might. If he is uncomfortable, that is on him.
Though there are many bands and shows I’d rather see. My ritual is to meet gfs and guy friends for dinner/drinks then head out to live music.
Typically NOT reggae. Though I have many videos of Kevin playing at Redneck, Jazz Foundation (where he stopped the band and came to my table to introduce himself), Incanto, Secrets, Solar, Captain Dons, Nacho Daddy, etc. Why? Because I was there with him, and I know the owners.
In any case — as you stated — as one woman to the other, I have no problem throwing a dog under the bus.
I know you think you are superior to me, younger, Latina, curvier, leaner, bustier, whatever. But what you don’t know is I am a bad ass woman in my own right with a heart of gold.
If you are truly raising Kevin’s Diego/Diago, my heart goes out to you. Please, for the future of humanity, teach him how to treat women and be a shining example of the kind of woman you hope he chooses.
Much love, Lori
p.s. If you want a peek into my real life, friend request me with a real profile. You will see I unblocked your MG profile as I have nothing to hide or hide from. You will see we are not so very different you and me.
Send a message telling me why you want to friend request me.
p.s.s. As far as your threat to steal my next man… I understand you are hurt. Still, this is unbecoming. Also, I didn’t steal your man. I NEVER mess with someone else’s man, it’s against my morals. Turn your anger where it should be – the cheating man, not innocent women.